I'd like to caution you against the idea of trying to remain friends with an ex girlfriend if your ultimate goal is really to end up back in a relationship with her. You might get advice from someone that this would be the best thing to do, but I am here to tell you that most guys who try to remain friends with an ex girlfriend end up regretting it in some way. They regret it because once you place yourself in the friend zone with her, it's a pain to try and get out of that zone.
Here are some things that you should do instead of trying to be friends with your ex girlfriend:
1. Try to make friends with women who you are not trying to date.
It's really a good thing for a guy to be friends with women. You can learn a lot by having female friends. And there is also the off chance that one of those female friends will end up knowing someone that you might end up dating. What you get by having women as friends that you don't want to date can be priceless because you get to see the way that women really are and not go on some romanticized idea on how you think that they are. Plus, it's a lot easier to become good at talking to women and approaching women when you have women as friends.
2. Have activities that have nothing to do with trying to get your ex girlfriend back.
Obsessions over relationships are not good, no matter how much you might try to rationalize them. You don't want to get caught in that trap of becoming one of those guys who is just thinking about his ex girlfriend or even thinking about dating all of the time. You want to have other interests. Not only does it make life more fun for you, it also helps you become more attractive with women and that is probably something that you won't mind, right?
If you do want to get back with your ex girlfriend, click on this link to get your FREE Guide on what to do.
Here are some things that you should do instead of trying to be friends with your ex girlfriend:
1. Try to make friends with women who you are not trying to date.
It's really a good thing for a guy to be friends with women. You can learn a lot by having female friends. And there is also the off chance that one of those female friends will end up knowing someone that you might end up dating. What you get by having women as friends that you don't want to date can be priceless because you get to see the way that women really are and not go on some romanticized idea on how you think that they are. Plus, it's a lot easier to become good at talking to women and approaching women when you have women as friends.
2. Have activities that have nothing to do with trying to get your ex girlfriend back.
Obsessions over relationships are not good, no matter how much you might try to rationalize them. You don't want to get caught in that trap of becoming one of those guys who is just thinking about his ex girlfriend or even thinking about dating all of the time. You want to have other interests. Not only does it make life more fun for you, it also helps you become more attractive with women and that is probably something that you won't mind, right?
If you do want to get back with your ex girlfriend, click on this link to get your FREE Guide on what to do.