You know, if you are trying to rebound back into the dating scene, then it is wise to understand what it is that you have to do in order to have some success, right? Well, one of the more common things that guys who are fresh out of a break up do wrong is - they end up coming off as being desperate to the women that they meet and that is why they will have a hard time attracting a woman. And the cycle usually goes like this - the more they come across as desperate, the less success that they have - and THAT makes them come across as being more desperate with each woman after that they meet.
So, here are some tips so that you DON'T come across as being desperate to a woman:
1. Have a social life outside of just trying to meet women.
Guys who only have the goal of meeting women and don't really have that much of a social life tend to have a harder time attracting women. They are way more likely to come across desperate because they are yearning for some social interaction. You don't want to make that kind of an impression and for that reason - you need to have a social life outside of just trying to meet women.
2. Don't talk about your ex girlfriend.
So, you found out that your ex girlfriend is dating another guy. Okay, that sucks but that doesn't mean that you should talk about it with women that you are trying to attract. Save the conversations about the ex girlfriend for another time and place.
3. Be able to walk away from a woman.
What I mean is this - most guys will linger around a woman that they like and most women will find that very off putting. If you want to come across like you are not desperate at all, then you need to be able to walk away and not be that guy who is hanging around her when she would rather you didn't.
So, here are some tips so that you DON'T come across as being desperate to a woman:
1. Have a social life outside of just trying to meet women.
Guys who only have the goal of meeting women and don't really have that much of a social life tend to have a harder time attracting women. They are way more likely to come across desperate because they are yearning for some social interaction. You don't want to make that kind of an impression and for that reason - you need to have a social life outside of just trying to meet women.
2. Don't talk about your ex girlfriend.
So, you found out that your ex girlfriend is dating another guy. Okay, that sucks but that doesn't mean that you should talk about it with women that you are trying to attract. Save the conversations about the ex girlfriend for another time and place.
3. Be able to walk away from a woman.
What I mean is this - most guys will linger around a woman that they like and most women will find that very off putting. If you want to come across like you are not desperate at all, then you need to be able to walk away and not be that guy who is hanging around her when she would rather you didn't.